• Celebrate Mom's special day with a surprise garden party.happy birthday image by Ewe Degiampietro from Fotolia.com
  
  Reject the over-the-hill jokes and black balloons. Mother's 50th birthday is a day worthy of a special celebration. Create a unique memory to make Mom's milestone birthday a day of delight, fun and fine times. With the help of friends and family, it is easy to plan a surprise party that is unique and truly memorable. The secret of a successful party is planning ahead and making sure that everyone involved is aware that the party is a "surprise."
  
  

Spa Day

• Decorate with colorful balloons and streamers.paper party cup image by Warren Millar from Fotolia.com
  
  Treat mom to a day at the spa. Make arrangements for a facial, manicure, pedicure, make-up and new hairdo. Go shopping with your mother for a new outfit to go with her new look, then take her to lunch at her favorite restaurant. Make arrangements prior to the party to have mother's friends and family waiting at the restaurant to "surprise" Mom and help her happily celebrate the day.
  
  

Family Reunion

• Plan a family day with children and grandchildren at the park, beach or backyard. Make arrangements for a family picnic, barbecue or family reunion. Engage other family members to keep the event an secret from Mom, help prepare Mom's favorite foods and make party decorations. You can choose a "Hawaiian" theme for the beach or a "Western" theme for a rustic setting. Ask guests to dress in costumes. Have a flattering photo of mom enlarged and framed with a wide border for family and friends to sign birthday greetings and good wishes. Make the event a total surprise my letting Mom believe you are taking her to lunch. Stop by the park or party site on the way.
  
  

"This Is Your Life"

• Photo albums hold cherished memories.page d'album photo image by Nath Photos from Fotolia.com
  
  Collect old photos from your Mother's childhood through adulthood. Create posters to decorate the room and a special album for mom to treasure. Invite school friends, teachers, professors, mentors and business associates as well as family and social friends. Surprise mom with unexpected guests from her past. Commemorate the event with video and photos. Plan floral decoration and a theme that expresses your mother's tastes and personality.