The time spent with your partner, husband or boyfriend should be pleasurable. There Are so many little and simple thing that you can do to keep the focus and excitement in the relationship.

When your partner is cooking why not be in that kitchen with him or her. Help out ask if your help is needed. Always be touching each other and experience that sensual feeling. While in the house together give a gentle touch on the arm and neck which could be followed by a kiss on the neck or back.

Steal a quick hug and walk off and say "you know I love you, right?" Don't expect an answer back just walk off and let that sink in your partner's head. I hope you see where I am going with this.

When your partner is having a bath or shower grab the rag and soap or whatever you use and pamper him or her. Make it exciting, laugh a little, and whisper a few sexy love talks. Tell your partner how lucky you are to have him/her in your life and give a reason why. Tell your partner you love him or her everyday no matter what.

Everyone has a cell phone in this day and age make good use of it. Don't use it to check where or what your partner is doing. Use it to send a text simply saying "I Love you honey." Why not Text something exciting, just like in the beginning of the relationship when it was all exciting. Tell your partner how much they have been missed and can't wait to see or to come home. Make your partner know how much he or she is needed.

Surprise your partner with things you know they will enjoy.

For the Ladies:

* Dress up sexy, you should know your man and know what he likes and turns him on.

* When he comes from work greet him with a big hug and a nice long kiss not the peck on the lips.

* Tell him that you miss him today and been thinking about him all day.

* Make him notice you and you notice him.

* Ask him how his was day, listen and pay attention.

* Give him a shoulder massage and a few kisses. He will love those things.

* Flirt a bit with him let him know you want him.

* Play a few love games (I leave this to your imagination).

* Don't forget to ask him if he is hungry.

* Cook his favorite meal once in a while.

* Light some sweet scented candles and have a little romantic dinner at home.

* Dress to tease him.

* Keep his eyes focused on you always.

Ladies and after all don't forget to keep yourself looking good at all times, workout do some activities together like going to the gym. Ladies a man loves to see a sexy woman. Why not make that sexy woman you? Remember it is all about keeping the excitement in the relationship.

For the Men:

* Guys pay attention to your woman.

* Let her know it is all about her.

* Play with her give her great sex and always remember when it's time for sex it's about her not you getting it off.

* Concentrate on pleasing her. Whisper in her ears and compliment her every day.

* Wake up in the middle of the night to have sex with her.

* Make the sex exciting. Not just sex, make love to her.

* Tell her how much you love her.

* You see something she likes buy it for her.

* Guys keep your body looking good so she can feast her eyes on you.

* Keep her focused at all times.

* Remember is the little things that count.

* Know what she likes and dislike.

* Always think of her even while you at work.

* Don't always be tired.

* Take her out and when you walking with her hold her hands or your arms around her waist.

* Be proud that she is your woman the love of your life.

* Improvise and make every moment an exciting one.
Remember keeping the excitement in the relationship will help rekindle the lost love, the intimacy, the passion, the romance, the sensual love making, builds up the trust and creates a closer bond between you and your partner.