Techniques for Meeting People
- Wait for a break in conversation to introduce yourself. Interrupting someone's conversation is rude and will cause her to react negatively to your introduction. Pay attention to conversation and respond intelligently to a comment made, then introduce yourself to the group of new people.
Another technique is to simply approach someone who interests you and introduce yourself politely. To start a conversation, ask a question about something that you can observe that interests the person, such asking what he thinks of a band playing at the club you're at or asking for a drink recommendation if he is drinking. Pay attention to his answer and respond to continue the conversation. - Being intimidated or frightened of introducing yourself to other people is a big reason it is difficult to meet new people. Do not let fear or intimidation guide your actions. No matter what their station in life, all people at their most basic are still people, making everyone equal. Do not be afraid to meet new people. Step up and introduce yourself confidently. Shake hands confidently and strongly without being overbearing. Keep your expectations realistic and be honest about who you are.
- In your everyday activities, your life crosses with many new people, even though you might not actually meet them. Find a group of people that you have something in common with. A good way is to join a class such as a dance class or an art class. You can also join a club or organization such as a church group or a book lover's club. Choosing a group that you have something in common with gives you an automatic connection to the people in that group. Once you have created that initial point of contact, you can expand your relationship to other areas of common interest through activities and conversations.