Why You Need to Hurt Women For Them to Love You
No, I'm not talking about physical abuse here, so calm down.
While hitting a woman may have a similar effect as what I'm suggesting, I wouldn't recommend that you do it unless the girl REALLY deserves it - Ha ha, just kidding! While I'm not advocating that you make a conscious effort to make girls cry, you will need to adopt a firm attitude with them regarding certain things.
From a young age, little girls learn that they can manipulate people by acting cute.
When they grow boobs and start having sex, this sense of entitlement gets even worse.
As a result, girls develop a mild disrespect for guys because we're so easily manipulated.
If you are unaffected by their manipulations, then their first instinct is to defer to your authority.
For example, if you're sitting with an attractive female and she asks you to pass her something which is closer to her than it is to you (meaning she could easily grab it) then be a man and tell her no.
When a girl asks you to do something for her which she could easily do herself, she's doing it in an attempt to mock you.
Especially if you're a socially respected male, by getting you to do something for her, she is in effect placing herself above you in the social hierarchy.
Naturally it goes without saying that this is something you want to avoid.
Because of the passive-aggressive nature of women, especially in the initial stages of courtship, you need to be on guard for this at all times.
Now, if she asks you to do something she physically can't do, like lift something or open a jar of peanut butter, then by all means feel free to flex your muscles.
In fact, this is one of the few times I'd say go ahead and try to impress her, because by doing something she CAN NEVER DO will increase your value by default.
Finally, I just want to close by saying that you don't need to outright hurt girls to win them over.
But, if it happens that you don't call her back, respond to her text, or forget some important piece of information she supposedly told you, then that's just fine.
If she tries to pull any waterworks she tries to pull over stuff like that, just know that you're getting one step closer to her having even stronger feelings for you.
While hitting a woman may have a similar effect as what I'm suggesting, I wouldn't recommend that you do it unless the girl REALLY deserves it - Ha ha, just kidding! While I'm not advocating that you make a conscious effort to make girls cry, you will need to adopt a firm attitude with them regarding certain things.
From a young age, little girls learn that they can manipulate people by acting cute.
When they grow boobs and start having sex, this sense of entitlement gets even worse.
As a result, girls develop a mild disrespect for guys because we're so easily manipulated.
If you are unaffected by their manipulations, then their first instinct is to defer to your authority.
For example, if you're sitting with an attractive female and she asks you to pass her something which is closer to her than it is to you (meaning she could easily grab it) then be a man and tell her no.
When a girl asks you to do something for her which she could easily do herself, she's doing it in an attempt to mock you.
Especially if you're a socially respected male, by getting you to do something for her, she is in effect placing herself above you in the social hierarchy.
Naturally it goes without saying that this is something you want to avoid.
Because of the passive-aggressive nature of women, especially in the initial stages of courtship, you need to be on guard for this at all times.
Now, if she asks you to do something she physically can't do, like lift something or open a jar of peanut butter, then by all means feel free to flex your muscles.
In fact, this is one of the few times I'd say go ahead and try to impress her, because by doing something she CAN NEVER DO will increase your value by default.
Finally, I just want to close by saying that you don't need to outright hurt girls to win them over.
But, if it happens that you don't call her back, respond to her text, or forget some important piece of information she supposedly told you, then that's just fine.
If she tries to pull any waterworks she tries to pull over stuff like that, just know that you're getting one step closer to her having even stronger feelings for you.
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