Many women, and men, are having trouble making up with ex boyfriend because the only thing screaming in the back of their mind is "I want my boyfriend back!" so we don't think clearly about how to do it.
We all make mistakes that cause us to lose the people we love.
When this happens we're so heartbroken that we can't do anything else.
Sometimes it like we'd rather feel the pain of losing a arm rather than feel the pain of breaking up with someone we dearly love.
You share things with a partner that no one else knows.
You tell your boyfriend your deepest feelings and you share so much with them that its to let them go.
Well guess what, you don't have to let him go.
To get an ex back you have to first have the ability to change.
Change will forever be a positive asset for any person to have.
Especially when they're trying to win someone into their arms.
Whatever caused the break up between the two of you, its obvious that a change is necessary.
You have to have a willingness to change for the better.
The next thing you need to do to get an ex boyfriend back in your arms is to show him your maturity and stability.
Most women, and men, start bombarding their ex boyfriends with phone calls and messages trying to get them to take them back or get back together.
This is a classic mistake that only drives our partners further and further away from us.
You need to show him your maturity and stability by backing off and giving him time to think about the break up and why it happened.
You too have to give yourself time to think about the problems that caused the break up.
Cool down and don't things like leaving resentful voice messages on his phone.
During a break up, so many emotions erupt and come out in the open.
Words are exchanged that you wish you could take back.
This leads to anger, resentment, and worst of all hatred.
So to get him back, just first give his space and time to think.
The next thing is to keep a strong line of communication open with your ex after the break up.
You have to have a way of letting your ex know that you want to talk about the break up and why it happened.
You could communicate to him through his friends, family members or to him directly.
It'd be better if the two of you were still friends after the break up.
Just meet with him to talk about the break up and the problems that caused it.
Talk about fixing those problems by making compromises and commitments.
Then convince him that the relationship won't be the same and that things will work if the two of you try again.
Relationships are saved and people are making up with ex boyfriend.
It happens every day and it can happen to you too.