You have this new girl for a while now and she makes you happy.
Maybe not quite? If you are like most men, you have come to wonder if she is the right girl for you.
Even though you have been dating for some time, you are not really sure.
After all, knowing if she is the real deal for you is not easy, yet you must get clear about that before moving further.
How does being with her make you feel about you? When you first meet someone, she probably has her best "face" forward to impress you.
So she'll say you are the funniest guy she knows, but a couple of months later, how is she really making you feel? Are you still making her laugh? Does she still bring beer and snacks when you are watching games because she wants to me you feel special? Maybe she is now fun anymore.
Maybe she is always negative, hates your favorite shows, and makes you feel useless? If it is the case, then it's likely time to move on.
You don't need to be reminded that you also have to make her feel great, right? So, if after several months of dating she still says you are the funniest guy and she doesn't complain when you wear your old shorts on the week end, then you may have gotten yourself a girl there.
Being comfortable like this with each other will create sparks in the bedroom.
Does she never have enough things? I am not saying a girl shouldn't look great.
I am saying be careful with the one who can never find something to put on even though she has enough stuff to open her own store.
And if she's always asking you to buy her new things and expect you to max your cards just to get her what she wants, then she cares more about how she look than she does about you.
What you want is a girl who cares more about you than what's in your wallet.
Is she always asking you to pay? This is delicate as some men do like to be the ones financially in charge all the time.
However, if you believe women should be able to contribute financially to the relationship as well, then you will have a problem with her expectation that you be the one spending.
Maybe she believes that you will support her when things are more serious, where as you are not in a position to do so.
Be certain that you are both in agreement about finances before getting too serious.
Is she always expecting to find a better guy? If she has a long line of guys and is constantly threatening to move to the next one in line because he is so much better than you, then this is bad sign.
No one is perfect, so you deserve a girl who will love you for you, with the good and the bad.
If she can appreciate your positive and accept the negative as a package deal, then great.
But if she is always looking for the next best thing, then she's not that great of a catch after all.
Every relationship has its trouble along the way and that shouldn't stop you.
You can have that wonderful girl who makes you feel great about yourself.
However, if lately she's been giving you any of these warning signs, then it's probably time to call it quit and go get yourself a new girl.