It is a hard experience to be dumped by the person you love so much.
But if you are in a relationship, that could happen.
If you tried extremely hard to get back on the good side of the person you love, but nothing worked, your heart will be broken.
Do not panic too much yet.
You can still make your ex fall in love with you again.
The relationship is not lost if you can make them fall for you again.
Now, start with being completely honest when you evaluate the situation.
You really need to do that if you want to make your ex fall in love with you again.
Do you just want to get back together because your pride was under attack, or do you really want to make your ex fall in love with you again so that the two of you can be in a relationship again? Did you do anything that lead to a fall out? Why is it that she or he left you? You need to find the answers to these questions before you can work on a solution.
If the two of you did not have enough quality time together, you have to change your schedule around so that quality time together is not ever an issue in the future.
Ask your ex to forgive you once you know what the problem is.
It is the first step to getting back together.
You need an approach that at least appears to be positive to your ex.
Time away from each other is the next important and essential stage.
What happened needs to fade in the mind of both partners.
Of course, you want whatever is least available at the time.
It is a human trait to want what is least available.
But you need to give it time and avoid contact with the ex partner you still love but who broke up with you.
Your ex will need to fall for you again.
This will not happen if you are just going the pathetic way.
They need to see you as the person with the great personality they fell in love with before, and she or he will feel attracted to you again.
Make sure they get to understand that you are taking blame for whatever happened and that you realize and accept the fact that they dumped you for that.
Do not try to win them over again just yet.
Your ex needs to believe that you accept the situation and did not take the blame just to be able to get back with him or her.
Become a more interesting person.
Educate yourself a bit in the stuff your ex is interested in.
That will never go unnoticed.
Your ex does not want to go back to a cry baby.
She or he will more likely be interested in uniting with a mature partner.
Your new personality will be interesting and they will forget whatever negativity they saw in your old personality.