There Is Love Online
Why is that so hard to believe? There is love everywhere! Love can be found everywhere...
There is love online...
IF we know how to find it! It is not easy to find love online...
if it was, the online dating sites would be out of business.
Just because you haven't found it, doesn't mean it's not there.
Once you have found a mutual interest in someone, start building on that foundation.
Most of us would like to believe in our "dreams" of love online...
"...
we met online, and we had so much in common! We both love theme parks, video arcades, poorly made thriller movies.
We both were raised by a single parent.
I want to be a stay-at-home-mom, and have an in house day care center.
He wants to be an engineer.
He loves children, and he wants to adopt my three children! He's relocating to my city and will probably move into the house with me and the kids!" And live happily ever after...
right? Not hardly...
That would be nice, but it is nothing more than a fairy tale! All of this can never be achieved online...
within a few emails! This happens all of the time with online relationships.
Then when the whole relationship explodes in everyone's faces, it's time to "bash" online dating.
The problem isn't with online dating, the problem is with two people being so desperate for love, that they are willing to believe a fantasy.
They are willing to ignore their common sense.
Even though, deep down inside? They knew it wasn't possible to develop such a relationship online or offline in such a short period of time.
There is love online...
but we must go about finding it slowly, and correctly.
Never give up...
There is love online...
IF we know how to find it! It is not easy to find love online...
if it was, the online dating sites would be out of business.
Just because you haven't found it, doesn't mean it's not there.
Once you have found a mutual interest in someone, start building on that foundation.
Most of us would like to believe in our "dreams" of love online...
"...
we met online, and we had so much in common! We both love theme parks, video arcades, poorly made thriller movies.
We both were raised by a single parent.
I want to be a stay-at-home-mom, and have an in house day care center.
He wants to be an engineer.
He loves children, and he wants to adopt my three children! He's relocating to my city and will probably move into the house with me and the kids!" And live happily ever after...
right? Not hardly...
That would be nice, but it is nothing more than a fairy tale! All of this can never be achieved online...
within a few emails! This happens all of the time with online relationships.
Then when the whole relationship explodes in everyone's faces, it's time to "bash" online dating.
The problem isn't with online dating, the problem is with two people being so desperate for love, that they are willing to believe a fantasy.
They are willing to ignore their common sense.
Even though, deep down inside? They knew it wasn't possible to develop such a relationship online or offline in such a short period of time.
There is love online...
but we must go about finding it slowly, and correctly.
Never give up...
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